"Gay men and straight men have a lot more in common than gay women and straight women," says Simon Doonan, creative director of Barneys New York, who calls straight men who hang out with gay men "fag stags." "They both want to make money, to work, and they’re here to satisfy their libidos. Gay men are particularly drawn to masculine straight men because they find them very entertaining and exotic. Guys who are too woo-woo—their herbal-tea collection is a bit too large and they do a lot of yoga—aren’t so interesting."